”But as the man I am looks ahead at the man I will be, with the memory of the child I was in my heart, I promise myself that when I build a family, it will be one of nights like those. I will love my family and I will be there for my family. My home will always be open. There will always be drinks, food, decorations, a tree with gifts under it and a warm embrace waiting at the door for everyone who walks through it. Wherever I go I take my family with me in my heart. And if nothing else happens to me in life than the chance to build a home that is constantly vacated by people I love, who love me, than I will be truly blessed and I will die the happiest man in the world.”